<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post6899838035545487090..comments</id><updated>2011-07-23T21:27:10.975+07:00</updated><category term='secular'/><category term='reflection'/><category term='Marriage'/><category term='Intercultural'/><category term='Family'/><category term='Article'/><category term='Philosophy'/><category term='theology'/><category term='woman'/><category term='Descriptive'/><category term='IAIN'/><category term='Sunna'/><category term='politic'/><category term='certitude'/><category term='Islamic law'/><category term='kalam'/><category term='Opinion'/><category term='western'/><category term='ash&apos;arites'/><category term='Indonesia'/><category term='Greek'/><category term='comparative'/><category term='Quran'/><category term='1st Year Doc'/><category term='History'/><category term='thought'/><category term='al-Ghazali'/><category term='Religion'/><category term='Stolen Legacy'/><category term='science'/><category term='knowledge'/><category term='theory'/><category term='islam'/><category term='din'/><category term='fatwa'/><category term='Ihya&apos;'/><category term='secularism'/><category term='culture'/><category term='legal opinion'/><category term='definition'/><category term='sufism'/><category term='islamization'/><category term='Pluralism'/><category term='epistemology'/><category term='mysticism'/><category term='pesantren'/><category term='secularization'/><category term='mu&apos;tazilites'/><category term='love'/><title type='text'>Comments on imdadrobbani-dot-com: Intercultural Marriage</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/feeds/6899838035545487090/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html'/><author><name>Imdad Robbani</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05420194308069438828</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='25' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_p1ESLBx2qgI/TK0E53Ww_5I/AAAAAAAAAmQ/ueC1sl_u1Wk/S220/enjoy_the_silence_by_wickednox.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-1933845533602695736</id><published>2009-01-26T22:22:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2009-01-26T22:22:00.000+07:00</updated><title type='text'>A cultural background does have an impact on coupl...</title><content type='html'>A cultural background does have an impact on couples in cross-cultural marriages.For a successful marriage, partners from different cultures should be flexible, compromising, and committed to their relationship. Commitment refers to an intention to maintain a relationship in spite of the difficulties that arise.  If these three ingredients are in use, then couples will often find ways to make their relationships work.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/1933845533602695736'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/1933845533602695736'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html?showComment=1232983320000#c1933845533602695736' title=''/><author><name>Laneris</name><uri>http://relationship.clickinlove.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-6899838035545487090' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/posts/default/6899838035545487090' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1245015106'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-8138049990040508610</id><published>2008-01-24T18:20:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-24T18:20:00.000+07:00</updated><title type='text'>hello boy!here your 'father of love' speaking!nice...</title><content type='html'>hello boy!here your 'father of love' speaking!nice article, but too much loaded and back grounded by subjective experience and milieu. I agree with anita, that inter-cultural marriage wasn't easy one. take me as example; tough I and my wife come from close cultural and family background, but still many difficulties regarding our big family habit. but show must go on, and, as you know, so far so good (it proven by our 2 boys presence, and insya Allah, will come and come he he). but, I really know, that that aren't your problem, are you?. your problems are how to approved by the family, especially your parent. am I right?&lt;BR/&gt;my last suggestion : keep love her and let Allah do the rest!!!&lt;BR/&gt;regard from the holy land!!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/8138049990040508610'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/8138049990040508610'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html?showComment=1201173600000#c8138049990040508610' title=''/><author><name>abu daud</name><uri>jafarsyuhud.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-6899838035545487090' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/posts/default/6899838035545487090' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1494073812'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-7791371136791465545</id><published>2008-01-24T14:54:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-24T14:54:00.000+07:00</updated><title type='text'>@anita&lt;br&gt;so, what should 2 persons loving each ot...</title><content type='html'>@anita&lt;BR/&gt;so, what should 2 persons loving each other do within such situation; coming from 2 cultures relatively different?&lt;BR/&gt;do you have experience to overcome these matters?&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;@abe&lt;BR/&gt;just enjoy your life!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/7791371136791465545'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/7791371136791465545'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html?showComment=1201161240000#c7791371136791465545' title=''/><author><name>Irobbani</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05420194308069438828</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='25' height='32' src='http://imdadr.googlepages.com/irobbani.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-6899838035545487090' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/posts/default/6899838035545487090' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-244885675'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-3193905345271851717</id><published>2008-01-16T12:42:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-16T12:42:00.000+07:00</updated><title type='text'>hei u!!! the great chipoxer, he he...</title><content type='html'>hei u!!! the great chipoxer, he he...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/3193905345271851717'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/3193905345271851717'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html?showComment=1200462120000#c3193905345271851717' title=''/><author><name>abe</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15988655955931477483</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-6899838035545487090' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/posts/default/6899838035545487090' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1582297711'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-7547016894616653891</id><published>2008-01-06T14:17:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-06T14:17:00.000+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Hello I just entered before I have to leave to the...</title><content type='html'>Hello I just entered before I have to leave to the airport, it's been very nice to meet you, if you want here is the site I told you about where I type some stuff and make good money (I work from home): &lt;A HREF="http://www.yourtypingbiz.info/billion-dollar-market.php" REL="nofollow"&gt;here it is&lt;/A&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/7547016894616653891'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/7547016894616653891'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html?showComment=1199603820000#c7547016894616653891' title=''/><author><name>barb michelen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17604665653334860657</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-6899838035545487090' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/posts/default/6899838035545487090' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-669852708'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-5362126846802013493</id><published>2007-12-31T10:29:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2007-12-31T10:29:00.000+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Hello, was directed by blog-indonesia to here.&lt;br&gt;...</title><content type='html'>Hello, was directed by blog-indonesia to here.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I don't think inter-cultural marriage becomes easy because love conquers everything. More than 30 years a go my mother cried almost everyday because she couldn't understand my father's family's habit. It took her years to be able to adjust with the customs. And vice a versa. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;My husband and I are from totally different backgrounds: skin color, religion, ethnic, and country. Everyday we learn something new. Simple thing like calling my dad-in -law by his name, (my mother think it's inappropriate), although I feel strange, that's what people do here. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;What I'm trying to say is that it's not merely because of love, but because we adjust, adapt, and learn  to accept the difference.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/5362126846802013493'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/6899838035545487090/comments/default/5362126846802013493'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html?showComment=1199071740000#c5362126846802013493' title=''/><author><name>Finally Woken</name><uri>http://anitacarmencita.blogspot.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.imdadrobbani.com/2007/12/intercultural-marriage.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8952458576834123994.post-6899838035545487090' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8952458576834123994/posts/default/6899838035545487090' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-717051257'/></entry></feed>
